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CocLuvr7in 65M

2/11/2019 5:05 pm

i think it is bs, i have had some good experience here on Free Social Sex Network. if they had thought they were to good for this site. then i would not have had the good time that i had.....by the you look gorgeous....,m


AliOrbit 67F
624 posts
2/11/2019 5:12 pm

Insecurity sounds about right.


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/11/2019 5:25 pm

I been told a couple times that I am too prudish to be here and I shouldn't be here because of my preferences on my profile amongst a few comments like that ....Is it too much to ask just to find a clean respectful partner for casual get together' without viewing a woman as merely just an animal ? I think there are lot of good men on here hopefully one will show up sooner as opposed to later. so sleeping I will wait .. lol good post ..


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
2/11/2019 5:26 pm

It is human nature to be lazy .People want what they want with no output of any effort from themselves .Serve me I am entitled and serving me is your reward and thanks ,don't get feely and greedy I don't want that ! These people have no soul , no spiritual entity .They are meat puppets who live to take for themselves and seek to give nothing ever . Sad but true .Many guys who have gone out of their way to be nice get used ,they stop being nice , women too give too much to men who don't earn it and get jaded. My buddy is starting to get to know a new lady ,She seems honest , sincere ,open , intelligent and has good values , he tests her every time he can and pushes her with outrageous or skeptical questions or comments .She calls him out on it and he is surprised .I tell him to slow his roll and stop being a dick but he got burned 3x and thinks every woman is out to use him only Well he just wants a maid and momma who will do him every time he wants it for free with no giveback unless he wants her to want what he feels like giving ,. Oy human nature .he will be alone untill he dies people just are not right too many emotional cripples out there .


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/11/2019 5:27 pm

    Quoting  :

Lord you was born a ramblin gal.

What do you think about someone being 'too good' to be *here*?
It is about them covering up for their inability to be respectful, or their . . . shortcomings . . . when it comes to being able to chat up and get together with wimmens.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
2/11/2019 5:29 pm

If they're too good to be here, then I'm too good for them.

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lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
2/11/2019 6:12 pm

When one feels that they are better than the best of us, or they are to good to be here. Makes me wonder, have they found a different way to put on their pants? Does their poop not smell? Are both big toes on the same foot?? Just what makes himself/herself/itself think he /she/it is better than the rest of us... And I can tell you there are plenty of guys and gals that would stand taller than this one in any moment... Insecurity and no self respect … just saying,

Rant any time you feel like it Lala, thanks for post

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CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
2/11/2019 6:30 pm

Hmm..

I literally just ran into someone who had that in the first line of her profile.

But i wasn't going to argue with her, and if she figured out everything that she needed to know about me after two sentences and a selfie.. then i don't have to convince her otherwise.
If anything, i just took a step back and thanked her for the time.

It might be arrogant, but if it's their inner truth then who am i to stand in their way?


lustasaurus 46F
1838 posts
2/11/2019 6:32 pm

I don’t have time for someone who complains about a situation and doesn’t make any effort to change it for the better.

I don’t want to hear about a bad relationship you’re not truly trying to fix, I don’t want to hear about the bad weather that you could move away from, and I definitely don’t wanna hear about the bad website that you’re currently participating in of your own free will.

It’s not about being too good for a website; it’s about being on a website you think so little of when you could be doing a million ‘better’ things with your time.


traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
2/11/2019 6:40 pm

Have I read a profile or looked at a profile picture and thought...yeah...I'm too cute for you!

Yes...Yes I have! But I just THOUGHT IT! I didn't say it and I certainly would never say that to a man. That would just be really cruel. Like why do that to someone just because they aren't your cup of tea?

As for the "don't expect to be treated with respect because this is a sex site" bullshit...If you don't treat me with respect...good luck getting me to fuck you. I don't share my body with men who can't be respectful of my needs and my boundaries. And that's true no matter which site I meet them on. Try and treat me like a whore and you gonna find you're facing the biggest bitch you've ever met.


Bragernesmann 35M
1 post
2/11/2019 6:55 pm

Looking good


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/11/2019 6:55 pm

Hey girl... How's it going?😘
I basically ignore all that clutter and chatter....
I mean... what's the point? Everyone here, has their own agenda... Isn't it a waste of time to try and figure out, what it is? And what it is, that motivates a mind that deviates so far, from one's own? 🤔
I concentrate, on my own, priorities.
Have fun... smile and laugh and have a great time..... are my thoughts. ❤️
As for all the others ? Why waste ones breath, trying to figure them out?
They'll... figure it out on their own. Or not... It doesn't affect me in the least. It's just clutter.

So... Whatcha been up to recently? 👆


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
2/11/2019 7:21 pm

Clue me in. The person who states that this site is low level, is on this site, saying it is low level. Soooooo, does that mean he/she is low level, also?
I’m soooo 🤷‍♀️ confused.
Where do we sign up for the “high class” fuck site?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/11/2019 8:20 pm

Empathy? Compassion? Worthy causes..
But not in a wasteland where common decency and decorum is masked and camouflaged by a keyboard, a fake personality and goals that are masked in self serving vitriol. Those people hate themselves and everyone else around them. No?
They just want to stir things up, Bring everyone else down to their level.
That's where I was coming from. I guess.... I've already judged them. You're a better person than me, if you want to learn more.
I'd rather learn more about people who are worthy.
So.. How was your day? 🤔😘


OldStiffOneEye01 50M
12 posts
2/11/2019 9:09 pm

The way I see it is, if they really thought they were too good for this site, why would they sign up in the first place? Perhaps they've had bad experiences since then which, let's face it, I'm sure that most of us have had such experiences a time or two. The difference being that we don't let it colour our perspective of members of the site on the whole. Stereotypes are truly a son of a bitch.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
2/11/2019 9:53 pm

like you said...if a person is too good for the site like this, but yet, he/she is still here...why???? get off the high horse or run for the hills...on the high horse...ya know...as if your shit won't stink...haha...i damn know my shit stinks tho...

as for men...yah...what can i say...some of the men are, i swear they are suffering from aspergers syndrome....they act like it's all about them, and never pay attention to the surroundings...or think about other people...they can show me some common decency, that will be a red flag for me...


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/11/2019 10:15 pm

Mosquitoes, live in swamp wastelands, filled with dark, cold, shadows. You can swat mosquitoes all day... or step into the sun. Mosquitoes hate the sun.
I love it. I'm sure you do to.
Think of how much more fun it can be, playing in the sun. rather than, swishing around amongst the mosquitoes.. 😘


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
2/12/2019 12:20 am

Eh, I suppose I’m mildly guilty of this in that my profile said* ‘the kind of person I’m looking for probably doesn’t exist on this site’. By which I meant, men who are interested in a “normal” committed relationship. I shouldn’t have said they’re non-existent here, but in my experience they’re pretty darn rare.

As for why I stick around, let’s get real, I wouldn’t have anyone reading and commenting on my blog if it were hosted somewhere else like tumblr.

*I’m not sure if that statement is still on my profile. I’ve gotten a lot of flak for it and I think I removed it eventually.


Maize32 55M  
1391 posts
2/12/2019 3:23 am

At first I was not going to reply, as I thought my reply was too good for...uh wait, what was the question again?

My thought is the person saying that believes they are giving the other person a compliment. We, or course, know this is not the case.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
2/12/2019 6:14 am

It falls into the "negging" category and that's my cue to exit the scene. Too good for the site? Agreed. Bye.

I've been hearing a lot of complaints (in person and on profiles/blogs) about how women nowadays have a "set of criteria" that men have to meet. Specifically all using the word criteria. Like was there a men's only podcast that was beamed out to disgruntled daters?


bradc49 68M
57 posts
2/12/2019 12:15 pm

People should always be respectful to women, and to men , too. I think that's a problem in today's society.. people can hide behind posts, IM, or tweeted words with little fear.... its easy to insult someone when they are not in front of you.. and that's a bad thing... ( Look at our government-- Both parties are guilty) But it shouldn't matter , you CAN be respectful in tweets, posts whatever-- you need to carry it through in whatever you do.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/12/2019 12:17 pm

What a great blog hun and my question would be WHY DO THEY THINK THEY ARE TOO GOOD FOR THIS PLACE? I think that's a terrible thing to say because no one in my book is better than anyone else. Everyone here has something to bring to the table ( as you know how I feel about that) .

I don't think anyone should say anything negative like that as it does make others think what the hell, why did you even bother signing up for this place. Lots of questions like these should be asked as why the hell do some people feel the need to say things like this!! Have a great day hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/12/2019 2:13 pm

I DON'T think it's a wasteland... I think SOME people consider it a wasteland and I prefer not to be a part of it.
You didn't get my analogy and you've never been in northern Quebec.... 😁🙁 I've got plenty of mosquito experience there, and I can tell you for a fact - mosquitos (the ones up there), hate the sun. I can be walking in the dark forest and get eaten alive by those buggers, but if I step into a sunny clearing.. they stay in the darkness... Fact... 😁👌
Anyway.. No... I don't think this place is a wasteland..
And.. My side of the island? 🏝️ No mosquitos at all! 😎 Come visit. You'll see for yourself.... Chilled pineapple juice? 🍍 Some other beverage? 🍵🍸🍹🍺🍻🍷🍾🍶🍵 Come on over.... 😘 I have more emojis, if you want to see them? 🤔


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/12/2019 2:16 pm

Basically my pov is this. Anybody who brings up anything negative.... I am out of there. Blog, magazine, chat groups, Erotic Stories.. Anywhere where there is any negativity.. I do not want any part of it. Negativity is my definition of wasteland.
Positivity and good vibes and humour, is my definition of the 'sun', and where I want to be....


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
2/12/2019 3:58 pm

I have been told by more than one person (female) that I shouldn't still be on here. I would never say I'm too good for this place though.


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
2/12/2019 4:50 pm

Brilliant point about why casual & for that matter meaningful sex can't go hand in hand with respectful behaviour. I think it just boils down to how clueless overall as a society so many cultures are towards sex. Instead of making efforts to educate, inform, understand & be tolerant it just seems that ignorance & a go it alone attitude is very much the norm. Sad but true.You speak your mind in a very smart articulate & honest manner Lala & I know naysayers here really won't slow you down. The truth hurts just look at the current Maga crowd whose leader doesn't know the meaning of that word because he never speaks it.


2trythis 60F
5109 posts
2/12/2019 4:50 pm

If someone feels that they are too good to be on this site then they shouldn't be on here. Simple. And they can take their arrogance with them. I agree with Paul, be happy.


2trythis 60F
5109 posts
2/12/2019 6:36 pm

Wow, I sounded harsh in my comment. Arrogant or not we all have the right to be here, it's a public site. No one person's views have to conform to anyone else's.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/13/2019 4:58 am

I know, that you haven haven't been to Northern Quebec because if you had - you'd know that our 'little buggers', don't follow us into the sun. ☀️
Just as you are correct, when you mention that I've never been to your part of the country, otherwise, I'd know that - you're 'little buggers', like this sun.
Hmmm.... Well I learned something... 🤔 Now I'm even more grateful to know that our guys, hate the sun. I still have to deal with the black flies and the gnats. And those assholes... aren't bothered by the sun at all! At least, not up here... 😱


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
2/13/2019 12:14 pm

I've never experienced someone saying that, but would discount them immediately - as I could not respect any person who shares that opinion.

I do happen to know (and have met) many men who are respectful of the ladies they encounter on the site. Being here and being worthy of respect, or displaying it, are NOT mutually exclusive.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


VenusRedux2 49F
557 posts
2/15/2019 7:08 am

This post touched a cord with me, probably because I feel like I belong in this category. I had to do a lot of reflection to understand it myself.

I'm in the category of Too Good To Be Here. I find this place...distasteful.

So what the hell am I don't here??? Even I don't know. It's not to meet people (that would ruin my marriage). It's not to look at the eye candy (if you're going to post dick pics, why use bad dick pics, I still don't get that). It's not for the friends I've made (I find most people here boring).

If I'm truly being 100% honest, the best answer I have would be addiction. No matter how many times I leave, I just keep getting drawn back in. Sometimes it's curiosity about what's changed. Sometimes its FOMO. Sometimes I'm depressed. Sometimes I'm just plain horny (God only knows what I intend to accomplish here with that, nevertheless here I am flirting with disaster). But none of those really explain it. I guess there's something familiar and comfortable here. No matter how bad it gets here, I'm used to it all. It's all faux-outrage, as the reality is that nothing that goes on here so much as raises and eyebrow anymore. My brain is screaming for something ... excitement maybe? ... that can be found here. When put like that, it sure sounds like addiction.

I have a lot to say about the lack of respect too. I have some theories and ideas about that. But typing the above bummed me out


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
2/16/2019 1:23 pm

I would agree that it is rather arrogant to state that they are too good for this site, and I cannot imagine someone with that attitude treating others with respect.

I would say that I've met MORE courteous, respectful men here than men who are rude and disrespectful. I don't think the site itself is an indicator of the type of people. One thing I appreciate about this site is that because we are all here, we've kind of stated up front our interest in sex, and our willingness to discuss it...where as, on a "traditional" dating site, you are still going to need to bring it up if the dating progresses to that point.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


pinkalts 60M

2/16/2019 11:55 pm

To each their own....who cares what others think.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/18/2019 1:12 am

Is that a spelling mistake in the blog title??


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/19/2019 4:39 am

As in.......'h'........


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/20/2019 10:15 am

I came back to reply to your comment.........but...........something keeps poking me in the eye.........

Ahhhhhhhahahahahahahahahahahaha, dearie me, what???????


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/20/2019 1:10 pm

Och, ye should have left it up, it was hilarious, especially the angle of the photo........

And I can't even remember what I was going to say first time round, suffering PTSD here!!


LazyDaisy2019 55F
17 posts
2/21/2019 2:47 pm

I went through all the comments. You sum it up perfectly. I only want to add one thing: MOST men take the advert word by word, this is the place where you get laid in hours so they chat you up and try to fix a place and time in the 3rd sentence. You are lucky if they dont ask you about your sexual preferences.
How does this sound? Like fixing a visit to a sex worker, right? Now listen, ladies...in their eyes we are LOWER than sex workers! You know why? Because we dont get paid Honestly, they only see value in things they have invested into.
So we are on a sex site in lingerie and upload erotic photos of ourselves... so we are eager free whores. Simple as this
Sorry, I added more than one thing but let me add a last one: some 4 years ago I was dating a guy from a site like this 2 times a week for 1.5 years. This sounds like a relationship, isnt it? The last time he took me home he told me it was over. I still dont know the reason, never mind. By then I wwas into him and he treated me like a princess, so the breakup was painful.
Time passed, and 2 years later he calls me if I want to meet up for fun. Surprised, I replied I dont have any motivation to have sex with someone who hurt me and turns up from nowhere after 2 years.
You know what he said? Laughed into my face saying 'whats a big deal about it, we met on a sex site, remember?'


socalocguy51 56M

2/22/2019 10:01 am

Bieing open and honest it kep....looking for NSA fun....hope it works out!


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
3/3/2019 8:02 pm

It surprises me that there is still a stigma to meeting people on dating sites, mostly by people who are not single and have no clue how hard it is to meet someone.

The problem with A F F is to the public, it appears to be a porn site. It is used by many has a place to find a source of sexual stimulation to masturbate to. Just logging on you would not have a clue about the actual social interactions that go beyond sex...the groups, blogs and chat rooms. Standard members who cannot read profiles only see the visuals, cannot read profiles that give insight to what members are looking for other than sex. Given that the site tag line is hook up, find sex or meet someone hot, and on the home page there are members pics and cams displaying genitalia and names like fuckmywetpussy and hardandhorny it is understandable.

Then there is the double standard. Men (and women) still have the attitude that a women who enjoys sex and is not reluctant to express her sexuality on a website is a slut and not of high standards.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


JakeForFun84 40M
10 posts
3/4/2019 12:18 pm

It's a mentality, I think if you're coming to the site with this in mind than you're likely to miss out on some potential opportunity to grow.


redhotfun4you2 61F  
1596 posts
3/5/2019 2:32 pm

I agree with you completely. Very well said.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
3/11/2019 3:04 pm

I don't think about that at all. if I thought that I wouldn't be here, right?

I think people say sit just to say shit. I have this one wretched person I know that carps on and on just to see if she can start a fight. she usually can. now, why she is still invited anywhere is beyond my ken, but then i tend to be judgey….winks

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


john7inu 39M
14 posts
3/11/2019 7:42 pm

well said


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