Standard members can now contact us, so if you believe you’re a good match for us, please feel free to contact us. We are a married couple, and do NOT play separately. Sorry fellas, but straight husband is part of the package. Also, after being on here for a bit we've realized we need to make something perfectly clear. We are NOT here to let some guy simply bang my wife, nor is husband a cuckold looking to watch. If you're just looking to get laid, then we are not the couple for you, and you most certainly are not the man we’re searching for. Also, we are really looking for just one man, and not a string of. We’re hoping to find that one special man who really understand what we’re trying to accomplish, and is okay with not having any other connection other than when it pertains to planning and engaging in play dates. Wife really requires that line of separation and disconnect to be able to fully let go and enjoy, In other words, we can’t really be friends outside of our occasional play parties. We have high expectations as to what the man we seek brings to the table. We are here seeking nothing less than a MIND-BLOWING EXPERIENCE. Vanilla sex or simply adding a third to the mix can be found and had anywhere, and we are NOT by any stretch of the imagination seeking that. We are in search of a VERY KINKY, VERY PERVERTED, somewhat dominant older man who MUST be AT LEAST 60 years old, who can help create and facilitate a real and relatively specific fantasy scenario for my wife and I. If you don't meet ALL of these requirements, then you are not the one for us and will be respectfully decline your offer. Sorry to sound so harsh, but we're getting inundated with messages from guys who don't come anywhere near being what we want. Sorry fellas, but no, liking doggy style, oral sex and threesomes doesn't make you a kinky perverted man. While we’re certainly searching for a man who wants those things, in our minds those things barely rate as foreplay to vanilla sex. We seek a whole lot more creativity beyond that. We can’t stress enough that CREATIVY and a willingness to work together with husband to plan and facilitate an incredible night of fantasy play is absolutely necessary. With that said, we are actually located in San Tan Valley, but for some reason AFF refuses to recognize many of the zip codes around here, so we chose Gilbert since it’s the next closes town. However, we will not be playing at our home. We would likely get a hotel/motel room, unless of course you can host and your place meets what we need to facilitate this fantasy play date. SHE is 48, tall, slender, and in amazing shape. HE is 57, 6'1" beefy 200 pounds and well endowed. We are both straight, although we would like to MAYBE expand HER horizons on that topic and at some later date possibly add a dominant female into the mix who can make wife feel helpless and owned. We are really only looking for mature men over the age of 60 who are first and foremost respectful, tactful, sexually creative, sexually gifted, very kinky, dominant, and of course a very kind person who can work with . Husband has a huge age gap fetish and fantasies of older men helping him dominate and use his beautiful younger wife for his "evil experiments." Husband is NOT a cuckold, so he will not be sitting idly by watching. Husband will be an active participant, and at times directing the action. Again, this is not a cuckold situation, but instead a complete domination and mind blowing ravaging of a smart, beautiful amazing woman who truly deserves every ounce of pleasure that comes her way. Would love to find the right man who can either host or is able to get away to meet at a hotel/motel in our general area for hours of fun. We can rarely if ever meet at the spur of a moment. We would usually need to plan a play date several days and possibly even weeks in advance. But trust me, it would be worth the wait if all goes as we plan. Yes, wife is entirely onboard with this. If we plan to do something, then rest assured wife knows about it and completely trusts husband has her best interest at heart. Although we've NEVER done anything even remotely like this before, and are entirely brand new to all of this, wife loves the idea of being MADE to engage in such activity. It's just all part of BOTH of our fantasies. She needs a firm hand to an extent force her into certain behaviors and situations. She likely won’t respond as well to someone leaning for a hug, as she would to someone forcefully just taking a hug. Of course limits must be respected, ours and yours, but to be honest, we're not yet entirely certain what wife’s limits are yet, and we agree it would be great fun finding out. Good personal hygiene is paramount, and men must be clean shaved below the waist. Wife does NOT like BO smells nor does she like hair in the public region, but rest assured, she keeps hers as bald as a baby.

My Ideal Person Wife has recently discovered she absolutely LOVES poppers, or similar party favors, and completely loses all inhibitions on them. If you have experience with such things, or anything else you think might be fun, please do let us know. We're not at all judgmental, and are in fact very adventurous and willing to try almost anything at least once.

If you've read this far, then you just might be who we're looking for, so please read on.

Our profile is a pretty good indication of what we're hoping to find. So if you believe you meet our requirements, would you mind writing us a short sexual fantasy story about what our first play date meeting would be like. It can be a couple of paragraphs, or a few pages long if you like. We’re not really concerned with the word count, as long as it paints the picture and conveys the message you want to convey. If it’s a lengthy story, then just ask and we can give you an email address where you can send it. So here’s what we’re looking for.

If YOU were setting up the ultimate fantasy for my wife and I, and you had a few weeks to plan everything you needed, what would that look like? You don't have to go into GREAT detail. It doesn't have to be a Fifty Shades of Grey novel, but we would like SOME details. Some things you would do, that you'd have Amy doing, or me and Amy doing, some things YOU would do to Amy, she do to you, that you and I would do to her. Maybe include a fantasy you’ve always had but never been able to experience. Again, we LOVE creativity and kink. What would the setting look like? Would it be a hotel or motel room, or would it be at your home? Would there be plenty of toys and restraints (We can certainly supply some toys and restraints if needed).

FYI, Amy LOVES the idea of being FORCED to do what’s required, be it physically forced or even psychologically manipulated or forced. She loves the idea of being spanked, front and back, being licked, front and back, being tied up, made to feel entirely vulnerable, being made to expose herself, sort of a forced exhibition, and we want scenarios involving long periods of edging where she’s repeatedly brought to the edge of orgasm over and over again, denied each time, followed by multiple forced orgasms one after another right in a row.

I find a good way to start your narrative is to begin the story with us just arriving at the location. You have been there for a short while setting up everything as you imagine it. What would be our greeting? What might Amy see when you open the door, and what might she see when you guide us inside; things like that.

Our Ideal Person:

Our ideal person would be a man over the age of 60, who is VERY kinky, VERY creative, has a secret sex toy collection, or not so secret, we don't care. A truly kinky perv will always have a stash of sex toys, so it's a dead giveaway that he’s probably not as kinky as he thinks he is if a man does not have toys he likes to use.
The age requirement is pretty important to us, but we are willing to compromise for the right person who checks off all of our other boxes. However, anyone younger than 50 is probably a hard no. Just know, if you’re under 50, then we probably won’t want to compromise on anything else. But hey, impress us, and who knows what might happen.

We are seeking a man with clean shaven genitals, because wife doesn't like hair down there. Sorry to break it to you fellas, but most women seem to think smooth is sexy, so shave your junk.

A few extra pounds is perfectly okay, but we're not looking for anyone who is obese. He must be respectful, tactful, sexually creative, sexually gifted and either dominant so wife knows she is NOT the one in control, or willing to follow husbands directions to the letter. Wife can be a bit of a brat, so our man might just have to spend a little time MAKING her comply and submit, or at least do what he’s told without hesitation in order to make her do what she’s told. We’re looking for a man who is very oral, and of course well endowed is also a plus, but kinky creativity can often make up for a lot of things. If you have issues getting an erection, just say so. That’s not a deal breaker. Also, we literally do likely have a cure for that, but we can discuss that later.

We are also curious about partying during (possibly various kinds because that can mean different things to different people) so anyone with experience who could maybe introduce us and guide us through such an experience is welcome.

An incredibly erotic, mind-blowing, downright dirty, kinky time with zero regrets for everyone involved is number one on the list.